They like to test your patience. Do not get mad, yell or shout at your kids if they do not obey the first time when you speak to them. There can be times when they will disobey you completely and as discussed above, there can be many things responsible for such behaviour. What are the common causes of disobedience in children?
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Share Share this article on. Enter Comment Sign in with. All tips on Disciplining Children You ever wanted in one place. No need to go anywhere else. No spam. Email Id is already registered. Kindly Login. Follow us on:. I read the title of this and it brought me to tears.
Much appreciated. You are spot on. Since i have only my one 5 year old son i played to soft i suppose and have not set proper boundaries. My own fault i know. I try every day to reconnect and establish a better more respectful relationship. Not complaining i made the bed…. I miss it and i now so does he. Such an amazingly helpful post!
Evaluating my own fears really hit home for me, too. So thank you for this post! I have a 3 year old daughter, Rosie, who has been getting into a naughty streak, and I will start implementing some of these strategies, so I can talk to her!
I really lash out when he is not able to help him self to improve only for his sake. You do a great job relating to other moms,. I think you can reach out to more moms by putting more diverse pictures not only skin color but also children in wheel chairs, glasses etc. TAhamena, have you read my articles on boundaries and rules? Start there, search the site for that. This was a lovely piece ,it addressed the way i correct my children when they are disobedient which usually involving a lot of shouting on my path leading be me to putting them down in their character, also the fact that i end up revisiting past rules they may have broken or ways they behaved that wasnt appealing and akll this eventually leaves me at the point of tears or overwhelmed that im not a good mother as my mum was to me when i was little or that i am not bringing them up the right way and this has been an exhausting circle of hurt on both sides.
Now i know that i can always show them the loving side of me while still been firm as well as not labelling them when they do wrong or to not take every minor issue as important they are children and will always make mistakes and thats why i have been put in place to guide them. Victoria, thanks for stopping by and best of luck as we all implement this with our kids. We all feel overwhelmed at times with our little ones and tend to want to bring it up! I am a preschool teacher and a tutor and a mother of 2 boys.
I am working from 7am to 7pm to cope up with family expenses. But everytime I come home, they are away— in the neighbors house. I am frustrated. But thanks to your advise. I really think my 8-year old is really seeking my attention as he always intentionally disobey.
It seems that I have more time for punishing them than my reading and play time with them. Your email address will not be published. Anger at all times may make the child rebellious. But at the same time, be authoritative. Authority should not be confused with anger. For example, if you want your child to arrange their toys in the cupboard, a polite tone works better than a commanding one.
You need to connect with them emotionally to judge their disobedience. Keep showering your love every now and then. Try to be a friendly parent. Some children may get physical when annoyed. Tell them hitting may cause injury. Ask them how they would feel if someone hits them back, and they get hurt. Let them know that children with such behavior are not liked by all. Rewarding a child for their excellent behavior encourages them to get better with time.
You go shopping, and you tell your children to play without fighting. When you come back, you see them at their best behavior. Give them their favorite ice cream or promise him a sleepover with a friend. You will find your children at their best every time. If the child is adamant and refuses to listen, offer them variety. Give them a choice with limited results.
It is a smart strategy that works on children and does your job. They might either manipulate you or lie to you that their task is done. Instead, make them aware of the rules to be followed. Stick to your instructions. If they do not follow, make them repeat it till they get the hang of it. Constant reminders with consequences often break their stubbornness.
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